Teaching Children About Diversity and Inclusion
As parents, caregivers, and teachers, many of us are looking for ways to engage children in discussions around diversity and inclusion. Speaking openly and positively about peoples’ differences can empower children, and help them cultivate empathy for others.
In simple terms, we can think of diversity as the differences between us (i.e., in race, gender, religion, disability, etc.). Inclusion, on the other hand, comes from creating an environment where everyone, regardless of their differences, feels welcomed and accepted. When diversity and inclusion are modeled by trusted adults, it will often create a lasting impact on the children around them.
Below are some ways we can help children understand and approach diversity and inclusion in compassionate ways:
Begin With Reflection: Ask yourself, “what types of diversity do we have in our own family?” “Who do we spend our social time with?” “Is our neighborhood diverse and inclusive?” “Does my child’s school promote diverse authors and approach history in an accurate way?” Whatever the answers to these questions are, by simply reflecting and discussing as a family, you can begin to shape the world around you to be more diverse and inclusive of others.
Redirect Intolerant Behavior: Notice how your child acts when among peers or adults of diverse backgrounds. Are they speaking out in judgement or leaving other children out of activities? Use it as an opportunity to talk about why it is important to treat everyone with kindness, compassion, and equality.
Engage in Multicultural Experiences: Participating in diverse experiences as a family will give children a first-hand account of exploring other communities and cultures. You can begin in your child’s school community and inquire if the school is participating in any events such as Black History Month, Lunar New Year, Eid, or Diwali. Alternatively, consider taking your family to a cultural community event such as a parade, holiday celebration, or even a new restaurant with ethnic cuisine. Immerse yourselves in new cultural experiences!
Provide Diverse Resources: What kinds of diverse resources does your child have access to? Books, dolls, games, and other activities can be provided to children that reflect different cultural backgrounds, skin tone, and that celebrate differences. When children see examples of diversity, especially through characters who do not necessarily look like them, helps to normalize differences in all walks of life.
Kids are impressionable and it is important to expose them to worlds outside of their own. Our collective goal should be to raise kind and compassionate kids into kind and compassionate adults!